Authenticity

Saying Yes Opens Endless Creativity—Tossing Turns Yes into Yes, And…

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 31 OF 31

How much of your relating revolves around defending, jockeying for who’s right this time, scorekeeping and tucking away tidbits you can use against your partner when …

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Quantum Shift Alert–You Can Osmose Love

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 30 OF 31

Here’s one of the most pervasive myths about relationships—it’s just plain constant work and compromise. You could just let go of that obsolete notion. We’ve noticed, …

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Harmony Happens When Separate Tones Play Together

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 29 OF 31

If you think that you have to establish a Gregorian chant kind of relationship where you both adhere to one melody line of opinions about what’s …

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To Have a Great Time All the Time, Play with Your Personas

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 28 OF 31

Everybody has personas, roles we still carry. We all learned to wear different roles just as we learned to wear different clothes and change expressions when …

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To Experience Heaven Right Now, Live in Completion

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 27 OF 31

We savor the joy of giving and receiving more love in more ways every day.

We treat each interaction as if it might be our last.…

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All Feelings are Flow

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 26 OF 31

Wherever we travel in the world to share relationship explorations, people seem most interested, confused and befuddled by feelings. We even had a man specifically come …

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Creativity Can Replace Complaining

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 25 OF 31

In our book Conscious Loving Ever After, we open with a chapter on creativity. If you were to make just one move to ignite passion and …

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Find Out What Delights Your Mate and Do It

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 24 OF 31

You can be the source of ongoing pleasure and joy when you look for ways to make your partner laugh. If you prioritize customized gifts of …

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Give and Receive the Balm of Being Deeply Listened To

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 23 OF 31

We are resonating tubes that can hum or squeak, expand or recoil in retreat. When we are listened to with presence and curiosity, friction turns to …

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Sex Can Keep Getting Better and Better Throughout Life

OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 22 OF 31

Really. I know, sounds impossible and deluded. Doesn’t the science say sexual attraction has already peaked, and at your age you’re way past your expiration date?! …

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