Our Biggest Relationship Wows from over 40 years of marriage

We celebrate our wedding through the whole month of October. 

To support you celebrating and growing your capacity for giving and receiving love any time of the year, we created this online home for our biggest relationship wows.

We're sharing with you the most important skills, practices and discoveries that have truly created Conscious Loving Ever After for us. Tap or click on the Relationship Wow cards below to read the full story behind the wow!

- Katie and Gay

40th FCL 31

You Create Your Relationships One Choice at a Time

Being Right Isn’t Worth It

Appreciating Gives You the Highest ROI of Any Relationship Move

Saying Something Real Creates Right-Now Intimacy

Committing Gets You into The Game: Recommitting Lets You Create a New Game

Blame And Criticism are the Junk Food of Relationships

Every Aspect of You Wants to Be Loved. By You.

You Can Breathe Your Way into Relationship Bliss

Turn Fear into Flow to Give Fresh Fuel to Your Relationships

Your Body Knows—Give Attention to More Than Your Thoughts!

Attention is the Currency of Relationship

Let Your Mate Be Your Ally, Especially When You’re Stuck

Take On Your Partner as an Appreciation Project

Respond Or React? In Each Interaction You Grow or Defend

You Don’t Have to Completely Understand the Issue to Let Go of It

Wonder Supplies the Rocket-Fuel for Juicy Relating

You Can Create Exquisite Variety Without Leaving Your Partner or Having an Affair

Who Loves Ya, Baby?!

You Need to Tussle–Just Like Other Mammals

You Can Discover the Whole Cosmos Through Your Partner

Changing One Thing Can Change Everything

Sex Can Keep Getting Better and Better Throughout Life

Give and Receive the Balm of Being Deeply Listened To

Find Out What Delights Your Mate and Do It

Creativity Can Replace Complaining

All Feelings are Flow

To Experience Heaven Right Now, Live in Completion

To Have a Great Time All the Time, Play with Your Personas

Harmony Happens When Separate Tones Play Together

Quantum Shift Alert–You Can Osmose Love

Saying Yes Opens Endless Creativity—Tossing Turns Yes into Yes, And…

Take Your Relationship Skills to WOW! Explore our seminars and online classes

We offer online and in person Conscious Living, Conscious Loving, and Body Intelligence seminars through The Hendricks Institute.

We also offer free online classes and online-community events like Katie's Monday morning Love In Action calls, sponsored by the Foundation for Conscious Living.

And, if you're interested in becoming a body intelligence coach or incorporating our methods into your professional or personal world, explore our coaching programs.